The Silver Lining

Breakups can really cause quite a complication in your life, especially when you genuinely cared and loved that person. As a person currently going through one, just know you’re not alone. When you go through a breakup, you typically go through the stages of grief and the length of Time it takes for you to go through it varies from person to person. I’ve been going through the anger stage for the past week and a half, not at my Ex, but at myself, at work, at God even. I constantly ask God “Why me?” And he always says “Why not you?”. God sent me the man I prayed for, I just wasn’t ready to receive that love quite yet and God took him away from me until I get myself together, at least that’s what I’m telling myself to keep myself together. The breakup made me realise that I have a lot of flaws and toxic traits that I didn’t work on so it flipped a switch in my brain. I started therapy, I started going to the gym, I left my stressful job and just started focusing on getting myself together. I did all of the things that should’ve done a long time ago all because of a breakup. I even got back in touch with my religion and started working on my relationship with God more. I read the bible three times a day, I pray 3-5 times a day and I limited my use of curse words, I’m changing my life around for the better. It sucks that I had to go through a terrible breakup and lose somebody that I genuinely cared for in order for me to realise it but I know it’s for the best right now and God will reward me when the time is right. I pray that God sees my progress and allows me to get a second chance at love so I can prove to him and to myself that I’ve reached the full potential that I’ve been wanting to reach for years. I know things are gonna be hard, that’s with every break up but always remember a break up allows you to focus on yourself without distractions. If that person is meant to be with you, trust me when I tell you God knows that and he will send that person back when he feels like you’re ready to accept that love or he will send you something better in return. If you’re going through a break up right now, don’t be afraid to cry, scream or shout, LET IT HURT but don’t let it hurt for too long. Once you’ve let your emotions out, focus on you, achieve every dream you’ve always wanted to, do things that you never thought you could, change your life for the better and you’ll realise that a break up isn’t always a bad thing. Keep your head up, and Let it hurt, but don’t ponder on it for too long, go out and show the world what you can do! Show God what you can do! Watch him give you all that you’ve been praying for and more, just trust in him always and make sure to do the work. God Bless and I hope this helps you to read this more than it helped me to write this ❤️

Hey Babes, I know it hurts right now and you’re constantly doubting yourself, it’s okay. I know how you feel because I’m going through it myself. A break up is no joke and I wouldn’t wish that pain on anybody. When you breakup with someone, it’s like you lost your best friend. I’m not sure about you but when I went through my break up, I felt physical pain in my chest that’s just how bad it hurts because I genuinely cared about that individual. My breakup honestly helped me get back in touch with my faith and I’ve been praying and reading scriptures 3 times a day. One thing I’ve learned about this whole thing is at some point you have to learn to Let go and Let God. It’s gonna hurt and you’re gonna miss that person but at the end of the day, everyone has a purpose, God knows that person and if that person is meant to be with you, God will send them back but if that person is not for you, God will send someone better so say it with me now: “Let Go and Let God”- Stay Strong, We got this! Keemia Jay.